A guide to bondage and SM suits

Bondage, BDSM or SM suits, however you want to call it, have become increasingly popular ever since the worldwide success of “Fifty Shades of Grey”.  Where initially most people thought of these as something rather extreme, something they definitely were not into, it now has become something very alluring. People came to understand that BDSM can mean different things. BDSM is a term that covers various activities and forms of sexual expression. It can vary from a rather innocent role play to dominance and submission to sadism and masochism. Especially with the latter, SM suits are often included.

SM is alluring because of various reasons. It can be kinky, but it can also be soft and romantic.  In addition, SM can help offer new experiences on a physical and emotional level. A regular sex session can be turned in something more explosive. An exciting adrenaline rush can be built by play-struggling against restraints and senses are heightened while being blindfolded.  In a way you could compare it with having your eyes closed during a massage.

Many different types of toys and pieces of equipment as SM suits can be used. With this article we will give you a short introduction to the products that can be your gateway to the world of bondage.

The first step to BDSM

If you and your partner have decided giving bondage a go than you have to bear in mind that you are in a way giving over the keys to mind and body. A level of trust therefore has to be established to get the most out of the experience. It won’t be a nice experience if you are not sure that you won’t get hurt or choked. The only way to really be able to enjoy is by being sure that you will be safe.

Talk things through with your partner. In the world of BDSM an open mind is key, but that doesn’t mean that you should be open to everything. Establish the limits and rules. You could make a distinction between soft limits and hard limits. Soft limits would be those things that you are hesitant about but might be willing to try if the setting and mood is right. Hard limits however are those things that are a big no-no and violating those limits would be a betrayal of trust.

Also, in order to make sure that you won’t get hurt and that limits won’t be crossed you might want to agree upon a safe word. Experts say that it is best to use a completely random word that will break the mood and will bring your limits to your partner’s attention.

If you are beginners and just starting to explore the intriguing world of SM it is best to take things slow. Start with the more innocent pieces of equipment like a blindfold or handcuffs and work your way up to the more kinky things as SM suits and whips.

From the basics to SM suits

For the beginners it is recommended to start with the basics like rope, handcuffs and blindfolds. If you are going to use rope then you should buy bondage rope and not normal rope as you do not want to end up with long-lasting burns. As for handcuffs, you could consider padded cuffs - preferably with an extra key, just in case one may end up lost. Padded cuffs are comfortable and can also be used on the ankles. In terms of blindfolds, you don’t need to buy one as a scarf will do. However, if you are planning on blindfolding your partner often or for a large amount of time you might want to consider buying a proper blindfold. In the end you do want your partner to be comfortable, don’t you?

If you feel like going a little bit more kinky you could buy a satin strip flogger. This type of flogger is a beginners toy that will make the noise of a whip, but will not hurt as much as it only leaves a quick sting. It is perfect if you are still discovering where your boundaries lie.

Another interesting product for couples that are still in the beginner phase, but feel like exploring a bit more, is the massage candle. A massage candle will drip oil that is hot enough to feel amazing, but not hot enough to burn the skin. Collar and chain, nipple clamps and butt plugs as well are good basic things to have in your beginner’s toy bag.

When it comes to bondage lingerie and fetish gear, don’t be afraid to experiment and discover what turns you on. On our website you will find a variety of SM suits, fetish lingerie and BDSM equipment. Because as they say: “You play the part, when you are dressed the part.”. So for an ultimate experience you really might want to invest in a sexy or intimidating latex outfit.

SM suits and latex

Latex is not an easy clothing material, it is something you need to learn to wear. Therefore we recommend you not to be too ambitious. It is better to start off with something small like gloves, panties or a mini skirt. Experience what it is like to feel latex against your skin and what it is like to play in it. When you have experienced what it is like to wear latex you can confidently start wearing larger pieces.

Latex is not only exciting to wear and see, it can also be an exciting and fun experience to get into it. In order to dress yourself comfortably in latex you must lube the suit and yourself. As latex has the tendency to stick to the skin while you get dress we therefore recommend using a silicone based lubricant to ease the process.

Concluding, SM suits and dressing up in latex can be a very sensual feeling, so don’t rush and take your time to explore, discover and enjoy the process.